Talking with your Doctors as an Adult

 

 

Q: I am 18 now; how do things change with my doctors & dentist?

A: As you enter into adulthood you will probably be more and more involved in the decisions regarding your medical care. when you reach 18 you more than likely are becoming involved with making the appointments and following the doctors instructions yourself. In short, you are now responsible for your ongoing care.

Not all can assume this responsibility, depending on the level of care and cognition. Most 18 years old will be very involved in every decision regarding their bodies, illnesses, and forms of treatment. With your new found adulthood comes the responsibility to follow through each day to take care of yourself physically and emotionally.

Now, instead of someone else making all your calls to doctors, you may be the one responsible to set the appointments, and call if there is a problem. Doctors and dentists may not even be able to speak with your regular care givers without your permission. You will the one signing your paperwork, and assuming the role of "responsible party" on their forms.

 

Q: How do I talk to my doctors and dentists?

A: Since you are entering adulthood, speak to them like you would another adult, or someone at work. Use respect, but don't be afraid to ask any and all questions you have about what they find relating to you. You are the patient, and you need to become informed. Your medical professionals will gladly answer your questions about medicines and treatments to your satisfaction. Be accurate in what you tell them, and be frank when you ask your questions. Use words you understand, and if they say something you do not understand, ask them to explain.

 

Q: Call I tell a doctor I do not like or want something?

A: You certainly have that right, although do not say no just because a treatment or medication is not what you like. More importantly, try to ask if there are alternatives to the recommended course of action, and talk about all your options. Doctors and dentists want you to be comfortable with their treatment plan too, and talking things through will help you to make better decisions.

 

 

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